Northumberland’s Gordon Moore awarded MBE

Gordon Moore awarded MBE

Gordon Moore, chief executive of Northumberland-based mental health and learning disability charity, Blyth Star Enterprises, has been awarded an MBE (Member of the Order of the British Empire) in the 2020 Queen’s New Year’s Honours list. Gordon Moore has been officially honoured for giving over 40 years’ service to helping thousands of people living with mental health issues and learning disabilities in the local community, and establishing much needed supported accommodation, outreach, social care and sheltered employment to improve social inclusion. As one of the founding directors of not-for-profit Blyth Star Enterprises, Gordon has worked tirelessly over the past 30 years on behalf of individuals and their families to make a real difference and enable their voices to be heard, often at challenging times of their lives. He established the charity in 1987 along with a small group of parents, carers and professionals with the mutual aim of raising standards of localised mental health services. His experience, including 30 years as a psychological therapist, nurse and manager in the NHS and simultaneously 25 years working alongside the Society for Social Psychiatry and Mental Health in Greece, has led to significant improvements in the lives of many people in Greece and across Northumberland. His drive, commitment and vision has also enabled Blyth Star to successfully develop a pathway of supported accommodation that aids people towards independent living, as well as some of the most innovative social care and sheltered work services in the UK.  These being based upon the fundamental values of, somewhere to live, somewhere to work and someone to care. Regarding his MBE, Gordon commented, “I’m truly honoured to receive an MBE, and although it has been given to me personally, it is really an award for the many people I have had and continue to have the pleasure of working with; colleagues, the users and in particular, the staff at Blyth Star who really are the heart and soul of the organisation. They all make a huge and positive difference to so many people’s lives. “I’m delighted and so too are my family. I’ve had an extremely privileged career that’s taken me to many places, but I’m rooted in Northumberland and the local community. It is my home and I would like to think that it would make my parents proud. My father was a miner at Ashington Colliery and my mother a local dinner lady. “Of course, it has been emotional, difficult and overwhelming at times but it is all worthwhile, and I’m especially grateful to my wife of 30 years, Christina, for her ongoing support.  Around me are some truly inspiring people and being able to help people, with often lifelong disabilities to live, work and be a part of their local community is totally fulfilling.” Tim Chrisp, Chairman of Blyth Star Enterprises, added, “I won’t be the only one to say that this award is thoroughly well deserved and everyone at Blyth Star offers our congratulations. Gordon has become an integral part of the organisation and has created a legacy that is held in very high regard by many, both inside and outside of the charity. It is not only his work on-the-ground however, but also his dedication, loyalty and compassion for those he works tirelessly for which is insurmountable. It’s fantastic news.” Blyth Star Enterprises is a not-for-profit charity providing living support services, training and sheltered employment opportunities. It offers innovative day services to over 350 people living with learning disabilities and lifelong mental health issues across Northumberland and the North East.

Support worker performs lifesaving first aid

Support worker - Angela Burrows

A banker turned support worker from Gloucester has saved the life of someone she supports by performing an abdominal thrust while at work. Angela Burrows works for national charity Hft at a service in Stonehouse, where she supports people with learning disabilities to live independently. The 57 year old was at work late last year when she noticed that someone who lives at the service was choking while eating dinner. Realising that he needed assistance, Angela acted quickly and performed an abdominal thrust. When this didn’t work, she performed two further thrusts which eventually dislodged the food and ensured the individual’s wellbeing. Other staff members present during the incident were impressed with Angela’s quick thinking and her ability to stay calm under pressure, and have since nominated her for the charity’s staff rewards scheme. Despite her first class first aid, Angela has only worked in social care for around 15 months, after three decades climbing the corporate ladder in the IT and banking industry, which saw her working in Switzerland and London. Seeking a change of pace and a role where she could make a difference to the lives of others, Angela now spends her days supporting adults with learning disabilities in all areas of their lives. She has even recently been promoted to senior support worker at the specialist service, which is designed to meet the needs of people on the dementia pathway or receiving end of life care, and was rated as ‘Outstanding’ by the Care Quality Commission (CQC) in 2018. Angela Burrows said: “When I noticed the person I was supporting struggling, it was just instinct to take action. My first aid training from when I first started at Hft came flooding back and I didn’t have time to hesitate – if I hadn’t done something the consequences could have been grim. “Since becoming a support worker in 2018, I haven’t looked back. You never look at the clock in this job. After working in banking for over 30 years, I was happy to make the switch into a role where every day is different. There are some surprising similarities between my old and new roles, including problem solving and juggling priorities, although I now support people rather than software! If you’re thinking of becoming a support worker, all you need is a positive attitude – it doesn’t matter what career path you’ve taken before.” Janet Humphry, Regional Manager at Hft, said: “Support workers are the bedrock of care, and people like Angela exemplify why this role is so crucial to ensuring people with learning disabilities are able to live the best life possible. When her first aid training was put to the test, Angela displayed qualities we strive to find in all our support workers, including compassion, skill and bravery. We hope that anyone considering support work is inspired by Angela’s story, which highlights that there is no set path to this important and valued profession.” Hft currently supports more than 2,500 people with learning disabilities across the country. This includes supporting people with learning disabilities to live independently in their own homes, providing employment services to help people develop skills and experience for work, and helping people to pursue hobbies, make new friends and get involved in their local communities.

Dating Tips For Those With A Disability

Two people with a disability on a date - disabled dating tips

The world of dating can be a scary place to navigate, especially if you aren’t used to putting yourself out there! Here at UCAN2 magazine we KNOW that there is a Mr or Mrs Right out there for everybody, so we’ve compiled our top dating tips to help you on your romantic journey!  Dating Tips For Those With A Disability 1.    Stay calm – you’ve got this! The first of our dating tips is an easy one. You need to have a positive attitude about starting to date. Feeling negative, terrified or pessimistic will only make you come across as being cynical or extremely nervous.  Focus on your strengths, your favourite qualities about yourself and what you could bring to a relationship. This will help you build up your confidence. And remember, you are not defined by your disability – you have just as much of a right to date as everybody else. 2.    Be honestThe best way to start a potential relationship is by being completely honest – about yourself, your life and of course of your disability.  It will be extremely difficult to establish a good relationship with someone if you start out by lying. It could also hinder your relationship in the long run, as your partner will have a difficult time understanding your needs if you aren’t honest. 3.    Consider meeting others with disabilities There are lots of reasons why you should consider dating someone else who has a disability. You’ll have something in common and will be able to relate to each other on a more personal level.  But remember, there are no restrictions when it comes to love! You can and should date whoever you want to, whether they have a disability or not.  4.     It’s OK to be rejectedRejection is a very normal part of life. Not everybody you date is going to be your cup of tea, nor are you going to be theirs!  Don’t let dating rejections knock you back, we know that it can be upsetting but dwelling on it definitely isn’t worth your time.  5.    Don’t give up!We all know the saying “you have to kiss a few frogs to find your prince charming” and it couldn’t be more true.   You might not find your perfect match straight away which can be frustrating, but don’t let it trouble you too much.  Instead, focus on all the friendships you’ve made along the way and try to stay positive. The right person will come along soon! 

Introducing Wheelchair Heaters

Wheelchair Heaters

We all know how important it is to stay warm and comfortable while using your wheelchair, when shopping, at sporting events, weddings in cold churches or any hundreds of other activities.Incorporating the technology we developed for our Stadium and Arena seat heating systems we have now developed the system into a wheelchair heating system Wheelchair Heaters.The result is a system of heated cushions using our patented waterproof system powered with rechargeable high capacity batteries offering a warmth of between 30c & 40c. The seat cushion incorporates anatomical high specification foams for comfort and to alleviate pressure points.Our heated seat and backrest is incorporated into a luxurious faux leather antimicrobial treated cover, upholstered over high quality foam with two different density layers for added comfort and to help relieve pressure points. The heating elements are waterproof carbon mats powered by a high capacity rechargeable battery placed in the easily accessible rear flap pocket.The on/off and temperature control switch, which is also fully waterproof, is found on the left upper side of the backrest. (other positions are available by special order)The base of the seat pan has an anti slip surface, and the whole system can be easily removed without tools and folded for storage and transportation. Three models are available:-Basic model This model has heating in the backrest only and does not come with a seat pad (an integral seat pad is available by special order). Complete with 3000 mAh battery and charger. Luxe model The Luxe model has a heating element in both the seat and backrest, with 3 heat settings, and does not have a sensor in the seat for automatic on and off. Complete with 6400 mAh battery and charger. Luxe Plus model The Luxe Plus model has a heating element in both the seat and backrest, with 3 heat settings, it also has a sensor in the seat pan to automatically turn on when you sit on the seat and turn off automatically when unoccupied. Complete with 6400 mAh battery and charger. The power/heating time is based on which heat setting you use i.e. 4 hours for low heat and 2 hours for high heat.  If people wish to always run the high setting we would recommend having a second battery thus giving 4 hours on high heat. Find out more

Blue Reef Aquarium

orange and white fish at Blue Reef Aquarium

Portsmouth’s award-winning Blue Reef Aquarium is a great place for visitors of all ages to find out more about the wonders of the deep, whatever the weather.The Aquarium is Fully Wheelchair Accessible and Blue Reef’s innovative displays, informative talks and feeding demonstrations will keep the family fully entertained.At the aquarium’s heart is the giant ocean tank where an underwater tunnel offers incredibly close encounters with puffer fish, triggerfish and hundreds of vibrant tropical fish amid the beauty of a recreated coral reef. Over 40 other living displays reveal the sheer variety of life in the deep, from tropical sharks and stingrays to clown fish and playful otters.Relax in the Driftwood Kitchen on site café stocked up with delicious refreshments, an outdoor splash pool and beach-inspired play area, and a marine-themed gift shop.If there is a birthday coming up, you can choose from a selection of fun birthday party packages and hold your party amongst the amazing sea-life. The birthday child can even help feed the sharks and rays!Also keep a look out for family events throughout the new year.For more information about Blue Reef Aquarium please visit our website at www.bluereefaquarium.co.uk/portsmouth or phone us on 023 9287 5222.    

First Learning Disabilities Dating Agency To Launch In Flintshire

Cupcakes from first learning disabilities dating agency in Flintshire

Funding has been announced for Flintshire’s first friendship and dating agency for adults with learning disabilities or autism, which is set to launch in this year! The new Luv2meetU dating agency service, which is run by national learning disabilities charity Hft, will be focused on supporting people with learning disabilities and their families to develop and sustain relationships, improve their health and wellbeing, and extend their social networks. Funding for the project comes from the Welsh Assembly’s Foundational Economy Challenge Fund, which has provided approximately £52,000 for the charity to launch a friendship and dating service in Flintshire. Aiming to address the increased risk of loneliness and isolation for people with learning disabilities, Luv2meetU chose rural Flintshire as the location for its next service, where people can find it difficult to get out and about independently and build new relationships. Luv2meetU Flintshire will be based at Hft’s new day opportunities centre, Hwb Cyfle, which provides local people with learning disabilities with a specialist environment, where they can access opportunities such as supported employment in their local community. The service plans on running around eight events a month when the membership is up and running, including museum visits, meals out, gigs, sports classes, theatre and cinema trips, and any other activities that members express an interest in. They will also be running singles events, chaperoning dates and hosting workshops on topics such as personal safety, developing confidence and sexual health. Following the launch of a service in Bristol in September this year, Luv2meetU Flintshire will be the dating agency’s tenth branch, extending from existing operations in the north of England. It is hoped that 60 to 80 adults with learning disabilities or autism in Wales will benefit from the service, which will be open to people from Flintshire and the surrounding areas. Karen England, Project Development Manager at Luv2meetU, said: “Programmes like Luv2meetU are essential to the wellbeing of people with learning disabilities or autism. That’s why we’re delighted to be able to extend Luv2meetU into Wales, which doesn’t have any other friendship and dating agencies of this kind. “We all have a right to make friends, go dating and maybe even find love, and people with learning disabilities are no exception. We’re looking forward to welcoming lots of new members from Wales, and offering them a new way to socialise, have fun and be themselves.” Luv2meetU was originally set up as a pilot in the Leeds and Wakefield area in 2007, supporting 40 people to get out and about, socialise and build friendships. The team now supports around 250 to 300 people with services in areas including Bradford, Kirklees, Bristol, Sheffield, Newcastle, Cheshire and Leeds, and has enabled dozens more to make friends and forge relationships. To find out more about the Luv2meetU dating agency, visit www.luv2meetu.com or contact luv2meetU@hft.org.uk.

Top 5 Dating Websites For People With Disabilities

People with disabilities on a date after using dating websites

Dating when you have a disability can be incredibly daunting, however, many tools can help you to meet new people in a stress-free way! The use of a dating website could increase your chances of finding a meaningful relationship, and give your confidence a boost. So, if you’re looking for love, or just looking to find new friends, there’s a dating website that suits everybody! We have created our Top 5 Dating Websites for People living with disabilities, to help you with your search. Top 5 Dating Websites for People living with disabilities DisabilityMatch.co.uk DisabilityMatch.co.uk prides itself in being the number one website for UK disabled singles! You could find your perfect match amongst DisabilityMatch’s vibrant disabled community. Meeting new people has never been so easy, especially for those with disabilities and you can sign up today for free!  You must be over 18 to sign up.  Disabled-Dating.co.uk Join the new dating site for the disabled and non-disabled UK singletons! Disabled-Dating is run by Tom, who was diagnosed with multiple sclerosis when he was younger. He created Disabled-Dating after finding happiness online and wanted to share his success with people like him!  You must be over 18 to sign up.  EnableDating.co.uk Become apart of the UK’s leading disabled community. The membership is completely free, and once you’ve signed up you can instantly browse profiles and become an active member of the community. Their website is also mobile ready, so you can enjoy your dating experience wherever you are. It has a fantastic chat feature and video messaging if you decide to take your budding relationship a bit further!  You must be over 18 to sign up.  DisabledDating4u.co.uk DisabledDating4u.co.uk is committed to supporting disabled individuals in their quest to find love. Whatever your disability, DisabledDating4u.co.uk will put you in touch with like-minded people. DisabledDating4u.co.uk started out in the UK as a small website in 2009 and has grown massively in the last few years due to their close community of disabled daters. There are 3 levels of membership to the site – free trial, gold and VIP. You must be over 18 to sign up. DisabledPeopleDate.com DisabledPeopleDate.com is a dating site for disabled singles that not only want to date, but also want to find meaningful friendships. There are so many disabilities displayed on their website, so you can find a partner with a similar condition to you. You can create a profile for free, and the full membership is £11.95 a month. You must be over 18 to sign up.  Enjoyed this piece, why not read our story about disabled dating tips We would love to share your experience of using a dating site. Get in touch hello@euromediaal.com.

Hft give their views on expansion plans at Luton airport

Luton airport sign

Members of Voices to be Heard, the speak-out group of Hft, a national charity that supports adults with learning disabilities, have given their opinions on Luton Airport’s ‘Future LuToN’ consultation plans. Luton Airport has recently (16 December) concluded a period of public consultations on the proposals for expansion, which lay out plans for a second terminal and regeneration of the neighbouring Wigmore Valley Park. A recent Civil Aviation Authority (CAA) report rated Luton Airport as “Good” in terms of accessibility for disabled passengers. However, the report also concluded that Luton Airport needed to do more to consult with disabled people as part of its proposals. Billy Davis, Public Affairs and Policy Manager at Hft, commented: “While it is welcome news that Luton Airport is taking positive steps to make the airport accessible for disabled travellers, it is concerning that the CAA has said Luton needs to do more to engage with disabled people. It is our hope that our consultation response will be part of Luton’s wider re-engagement with the disabled community. “Hft supports or employs over 900 people for whom Luton Airport would be their nearest airport. It was very important for members of Voices to be Heard to participate in the consultation, so that the opinions of those with learning disabilities were considered during the expansion process. Issues raised included adapting the environment for people with learning disabilities by reducing harsh lighting and introducing quiet areas, as well as improving staff training and ensuring passengers aren’t forced to travel separately from their family members or support staff.” Members of Voices to be Heard have also previously submitted evidence to the Department for Transport’s Draft Transport Accessibility Plan and provided commentary on the expansion plans of Bristol Airport, Doncaster-Sheffield Airport and London Heathrow Airport. 

Active Essex celebrates inclusive sport at annual sports awards

Active Essex inclusive sports awards

The winners of the Active Essex Sports Awards 2019 have been announced during an inspirational ceremony at Chelmsford City Racecourse on Wednesday 5th December. The event celebrated the county’s sporting achievements from grassroots to a professional level, along with individuals and community partners that have encouraged participation in sport and physical activity in Essex at every level. Amongst the winners were para-athletes Freya Levy and Ellie Challis. Freya Levy from Rochford was crowned ‘Sports Personality of the Year’ by public vote, following an impressive year of sporting achievements as a member of the GB Women’s Para ice hockey team, the GB Wheelchair basketball U25 team and the England Wheelchair Rugby Sevens Team. Her entry also highlighted her support to encourage more people with disabilities to participate in sport. Freya Levy, said; “To win the award this year is just a dream and I’d like to say a big thank you to everyone who voted – it feels great to be recognised by your local community and it will really power me on through to the next season. There are so many opportunities to take part in sport in Essex and I’m a true believer that there is something out there for everyone.” Azeem Akhtar, Chair of Active Essex, said; “It is crucial that we celebrate not only our county’s sporting achievements but also the individuals and organisations that are encouraging participation at every level. “At this year’s awards we saw some fantastic examples of how sport has become more inclusive than ever, and can be used to tackle gang crime, mental health, loneliness and other key societal issues – this speaks volumes and shows how important it is that we work closely together as a county to keep our communities active!” The Active Essex Sports awards are part of Active Essex’s ongoing commitment to change one million lives by getting more people around Essex active. Joining the celebrations and awarded with ‘special recognition’ trophies were some of Essex’s household sporting names, including double Olympic gymnastics champion Max Whitlock MBE – who recently won gold at the World Championships – and team members from Essex County Cricket, following an outstanding season of Cricket. Max went on to present the ‘Young Sports Personality of the Year’ award to Ellie Challis, a para-swimmer and snowboarder who has already set national and world records. He said; “Supporting and recognising the achievements of young athletes is vital to the longevity of sport and for me knowing how it feels to receive an award for something you love, it gives you that boost to go further and inspire more people along the way. I’d like to say a big congratulations to Ellie and all of the finalists and winners this evening.” Ellie was recently announced as Swim England’s Para-swimming talent of the year and has been selected for the Tokyo 2020 Paralympics. Ellie Challis said; “I was very shocked to win the award with so many talented people in the room tonight. My biggest highlight this year was being selected for the World Championships and coming back with a Bronze medal – when I initially went for experience! I’m now looking forward to the Paralympics next year and this award will certainly motivate me along the way.” Azeem added: “I would like to thank everybody that has participated in this year’s Active Essex Sports Awards, from the Essex public that submitted over 600 nominations and voted their local heroes, to our wonderful sponsors and not least the fantastic finalists and winners who are all championing sport and physical activity across Greater Essex!” For a full list of winners and finalists, visit http://bit.ly/SportsAwards2019Winners